Not Every Woman Will Like You Back

Not Every Woman Will Like You Back

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This is something that a lot of guys in general just seem to not accept: when a woman doesn't like them back. It's one of the reasons why guys have a tough time forgetting some of the women that broke up with them, it's because it's hard to accept that some people just don't like you. You just don't do it for them.

It's difficult to understand that but as soon as you accept that people just don't like you, the easier your dating life would be and the easier it would be to attract women. I don't care how attractive you are as a guy, somebody's not gonna like you. Sometimes, you literally offer everything to somebody but it's still not gonna be enough for them. A lot of guys do not accept that, they don't want to accept that that is the reality of things.

What I want you to do is accept what you can't get. In other words, like for me, I could try to get 3-4 girls per day but I can't--but I tried though. The thing is that attempting it, you may get it on rare occasions and increase the number of women you meet but the effort does not equal the reward. The more women that you get, the less rewarding it's gonna be to you. That effort which was initially worth it because of the reward is not gonna be the same anymore.

It's funny because I realized this myself. There's a certain amount of women that I could attract naturally--just by me being me. That is the amount that you got to accept. You have to accept that because if you don't, what's gonna happen is you'll try to be someone who you're not ready to be. I'm saying not ready, I mean that you don't have the social capital, your non-scale victories are not as high, you have nothing to offer and you don't want to accept that.

When I say you don't want to accept that, you don't respect the fact that some guys get a certain number of women because there are just some things about them that attracts it. You don't want to accept it because some things about you are just unattractive to women.

Once you accept how many women you can attract, then you're able to see parts of yourself that you could maybe improve a little bit. It'll increase the range of women who you get. Also, if you accept it, you won't be jealous of other dudes, you're gonna be focused on your craft.

Accept where you are and then work on getting to where you want to be. Accept who you are and accept what you cannot get. As soon as you're able to accept that, the sooner you'll be more relaxed and the easier it'll be for you to let go that some people just won't like you.

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